The deprivation of attachment you feel will lead you to put up with other things that you wouldn’t in your normal life. But Julie believes immediate relationships are only ever temporary because you’re still dealing with so much physical and emotional turmoil post-divorce. Could an actual connection happen? Sure, anything can happen in life. It becomes a reflex reaction based on lust rather than genuine connection. Julie explains that after the separation phase, dating takes on an impulsive response. It’s temporary and destined to be short-lived. You can enjoy the ride but know that it’s just a ride. They’re the greatest in the whole world.” Meanwhile, from the outside, the relationship makes no sense. But sometimes you get so caught up and you’re like “oh my god, I love this person. Once you’re separated, the minute you’ve got your ticket to head out to ride, you do. Through her experience in helping these women figure out their situations, Julie has sifted through the gossip that surrounds a rebound and has some insightful information on the nature of this temporary relationship. We know it when we see it, but do we really understand it when we’re in it? Julie Wein is a licensed clinical social worker in New Jersey who works with women going through divorce. Why do we get into rebound relationships? An Interview with Julie Wein
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